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TN50 Dialog Wanita

An agenda in my calendar today was to head to TTDI for the TN50 Women Dialogue. Did not manage to get off in time so thank God for Facebook live. I am very proud of some of the aspirations that were shared tonight:

- minority rights particularly for indigenous communities
- women's safety
- women supporting one another
- skills shortage amongst graduates
- empowerment of women via film and entertainment industry (watch out for the release of Suri Hati Mr Househusband!)
- women involvement in male-dominated industries including forestry, etc
- women in politics and policy making
- flexible working environment
- senior women contributing towards the GDP and national growth
- mentality shift and mindset change
- gender discrimination at work
- building a sustainable nation

To the house husband, Iman Wan (forgive me, or if you are reading this; please write to me if I wrote your name wrong); I am proud of you. Your son must be too.

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